Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Evie's Exciting Weekend, Part 3. The Trip Home

Saturday night we arrived at the Hampton Inn in Lincoln, NE, showered, and then crashed and burned at 11:30...40 hours after my day started.

I woke up at about 1:30 am, apparently immediately after a temporal lobe seizure. This part is a little hazy for me. I was severely disoriented and anxious and nothing looked remotely familiar. I did the post-seizure thing I do; pacing from the bathroom to the bed to the window and back to the bathroom; lap after lap after lap. Finally Lori helped me settle down, wrapped me up in a blanket, and set the laptop in my lap. She told me later that she was looking for some sort of touchstone for me in that scary room full of unfamiliar things, and she was hoping the online news groups and blogs might do it. Who knew that Tiny Cat Pants would save my sanity someday?

Probably at this point I ought to mention that this was my own stupid fault. The drug I take to control the seizures makes me sluggish, and I knew I'd be working that long day on Friday, so I skipped my Friday morning dose. Ditto Friday night, and the Saturday morning. I was thinking that I could get by without it long enough to get through those long sleepless hours. But...uh...no.

So finally at 3:30 am I was calm enough to sleep again, and went back to bed. The sleeping was most excellent, except for that dream where I was supposed to be watching Lori's car. I went inside the house for a minute to go to the bathroom, and came back to find her beautiful convertible vandalized, missing it's top and covered in a homemade camouflage paint job. My heart stopped for a moment. "Uh-oh...Lori's going to kill me when she sees this.

Luckily, I woke up at that point. But reality wasn't much prettier: 8:00am and Lincoln, Nebraska.

The hotel had a free mini breakfast buffet, so we took turns going down to load up trays of food and bring them back to the room. We couldn't actually eat in the dining room for a couple of reasons; first...I looked like crap. Crap on a cracker. Crap on a stick with Thai peanut sauce. I looked like a lesbian heroin addict on the second day of rehab. Hollow-eyed, monosyllabic, spiky hair pointed skyward like Bill the Cat. Lori, as usual, looked good. Fresh as a freakin' daisy. Clean, chipper and alert.

I mainlined half a pot of coffee, showered again, and we headed out. We decided to take secondary routes home and avoid the interstates, since pulling the Jeep with our little Ford Ranger left us with a top speed of about 55mph.

The little truck struggled some, but we got into a groove and made our way through Nebraska, then Iowa, and into Missouri. In Missouri, we turned onto Route 36, which is a four lane road that cuts through Missouri from St. Joseph to Hannibal without too much traffic or too many stoplights.

The little truck crept along; 45 mph uphill and then 65 mph downhill, for the 300 miles across the state. Occasionally one lane would be closed for construction and we'd have a long line of cars backed up behind up until they could eventually get by. We decided that no one should mind...this was, after all, Central Missouri, and all of these people had at some point in their lives cruised down the highway at 15 mph on their John Deere tractors. 45 should have looked like Indy racing.

We crept along uneventfully, entertaining each other by talking about our favorite topic: sex. We compared how many sex partners we'd had in our lives (I won), decided who was our favorite (besides each other) and who was the most inept. We talked about who we'd slept with that we'd rather forget, who we would have slept with, but never got the chance. We talked about our firsts...first guy, first girl, first love, first time we realized we were gay, first time we said it out loud.

That got us through Missouri to St Louis. We crossed over from Missouri to Illinois for the psychological boost of being in our home state and started on the last three hours home at about 8:00pm.

And that's when we hit the wall. It was dark, we were tired. We'd talked about everything we could talk about, and we were ready to be home. Lori finally dozed off, and I turned off my head off and aimed the truck towards Union County.

At 11:00, we pulled into a church parking lot in Ware, unloaded the Jeep, drove the now feather-light truck back to Cape Girardeau and dropped off the car hauler, then went back to Ware to get the Jeep. I drove the Jeep the last 10 miles, Lori drove the truck. The jeep was LOUD, and I couldn't find the controls to adjust the seat, so I drove home leaned way back like a rural white-trash gang banger.

Finally, at midnight, between Sunday night and Monday morning...it was over. We arrived home with all of $13 left in our travelling fund...but we'd all survived. Me, Lori, the Jeep, our relationship...all alive.

I consider that a HUGE success.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

that was a harrowing tale. excellent as usual--i can actually feel the exhaustion. Seizure med tip to fight the sedative effects: increase the intake of pure water with a side of potato chips (where salt goes, water follows) which will decrease the blood level but still allow you to have the benefits without having to hold doses. Glad you're home.

Kwach said...

That's some fine anonymous advice, there!

After one of these post-ictal events Ev will sometimes tell me she's surprised I never get annoyed with her for waking me up and being crazy in the middle of the night.

As I told her, she's not crazy and there's nothing to get annoyed about. One look at her and any thought I might have about my own comfort goes out the window. All I can think about at that point is how powerless I am to help her get through it, and how awful it must be to go from being Super-Evie to being that scared and disoriented.

Temporal Lobe Seizures are something you can't imagine if you haven't seen them. I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy ... and certainly not on my best friend and sweetheart.

So, no ... there'll be no more skipping of medication doses ... and Ev loves water AND salty potato chips, so we'll try out your recipe for success!

Kwach

Anonymous said...

*ahem*
You had sure as hell better bring your seizure medication with you to Arizona, because I will shit my pants if you forget where we are in the middle of Texas.
Literally. I will shit. In my pants. And then Tyler won't love me anymore, and you'll have to figure out why you're trapped in a room with a poopy pantsed young woman and her Indian-I-mean-Native-American man friend.
Plus, I can't navigate to save my life.


The other day Ursula and I were sitting in the carport chattin', and she said "I wonder when you stop feeling like moms make everything okay," and we decided that the answer to that is "Never."

Love,
Carrie

Kwach said...

The good news is, she doesn't forget where she is. The bad news is, she just doesn't like it and wants to go home. This is fine if you're already heading this direction. Not so good if she's headed for Tucson.

Never get hit in the head hard enough to cause a brain hemorrhage. That's my advice.

Kwach

Ev said...

"And then Tyler won't love me anymore, and you'll have to figure out why you're trapped in a room with a poopy pantsed young woman and her Indian-I-mean-Native-American man friend.
Plus, I can't navigate to save my life."

That's EX-man friend, after the poopie pants incident.

Don't worry, I've seen you in poopy pants before. I'll just hose you off in the yard like I did when you were a baby.

Love,
Mom